{"id":2740,"date":"2022-09-21T23:09:07","date_gmt":"2022-09-21T15:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shawnjosiah.com\/shawnjosiah\/?p=2740"},"modified":"2022-09-21T23:09:21","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T15:09:21","slug":"heres-a-secret-to-success-be-selfish-sometimes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shawnjosiah.com\/shawnjosiah\/heres-a-secret-to-success-be-selfish-sometimes\/","title":{"rendered":"Here\u2019s A Secret To Success: Be Selfish Sometimes"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"op3-designer-element\">\n<div data-op3-children=\"1\"><div id=\"op3-element-q3gQRLAI\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"q3gQRLAI\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"section\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Section #q3gQRLAI\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\" data-op3-sticky=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-active-desktop=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-tablet=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-mobile=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-top-desktop=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-tablet=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-mobile=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-until=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-until-element=\"\"><div data-op3-children=\"5\"><div id=\"op3-element-IjxSPasP\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"IjxSPasP\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"row\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Row #IjxSPasP\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" 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data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div class=\"op3-column-content op3-background-parent\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-element-container><div data-op3-children=\"3\"><div id=\"op3-element-iHaAxouR\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"iHaAxouR\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"headline\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Headline #iHaAxouR\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-headline-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><h2><!--StartFragment-->Here\u2019s A Secret To Success: Be Selfish Sometimes&nbsp;<!--EndFragment--><br><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-UQxUxRiV\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"UQxUxRiV\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"customhtml\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Custom HTML #UQxUxRiV\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-custom-html-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-code-html><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1337216062419691\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- Before Article -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1337216062419691\" data-ad-slot=\"5861531618\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-G5kNOmiC\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"G5kNOmiC\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"text\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Text Editor #G5kNOmiC\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-text-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><p>When successful and wealthy people are asked about their secret to success, they would usually answer about working hard and sacrificing time and efforts to their endeavors. But here\u2019s another thing that they do not usually include in their answers: that it\u2019s okay to be selfish sometimes.&nbsp;<\/p><p>This little secret to success might not be the case for some people who enjoy putting others first.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-IEEaJ3We\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"IEEaJ3We\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"row\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Row #IEEaJ3We\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\" data-op3-sticky=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-active-desktop=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-tablet=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-mobile=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-top-desktop=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-tablet=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-mobile=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-until=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-until-element=\"\"><div data-op3-children=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-mobile=\"0\"><div id=\"op3-element-pZsf7u1O\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"pZsf7u1O\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"column\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Column #pZsf7u1O\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div class=\"op3-column-content op3-background-parent\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-element-container><div data-op3-children=\"2\"><div id=\"op3-element-XqcEavXV\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"XqcEavXV\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"headline\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Headline #XqcEavXV\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-headline-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><h2><!--StartFragment-->What It Means To Be Selfish<!--EndFragment--><br><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-uHE127fG\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"uHE127fG\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"text\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Text Editor #uHE127fG\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-text-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><p>The word selfish is often labeled as an undesirable trait, something to describe that you are putting yourself first and disregarding other people. Selfish is when you choose to bring your own food, instead of sharing with the expenses when you go on a vacation with friends. Selfish is when you decide what's best for your business and disregard your employees' wellness. Many of you would ask, is this really the secret to success?&nbsp;<\/p><p>Being selfish is that trait that our parents would often scold us about. Your mom might have admonished you once for not sharing your treats with your siblings. Your dad might have talked about you being selfish for forgetting to visit your relatives at their special occasions.&nbsp;<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-HIa5c2DF\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"HIa5c2DF\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"row\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Row #HIa5c2DF\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\" data-op3-sticky=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-active-desktop=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-tablet=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-mobile=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-top-desktop=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-tablet=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-mobile=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-until=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-until-element=\"\"><div data-op3-children=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-mobile=\"0\"><div id=\"op3-element-SOzqxasH\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"SOzqxasH\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"column\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Column #SOzqxasH\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div class=\"op3-column-content op3-background-parent\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-element-container><div data-op3-children=\"3\"><div id=\"op3-element-NlwljTzT\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"NlwljTzT\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"headline\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Headline #NlwljTzT\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-headline-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><h2><!--StartFragment-->How Did Being Selfish Become A Secret To Success?<!--EndFragment--><br><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-uenn7PpR\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"uenn7PpR\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"customhtml\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Custom HTML #uenn7PpR\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-custom-html-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-code-html><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1337216062419691\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block\" data-ad-format=\"autorelaxed\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1337216062419691\" data-ad-slot=\"9609204934\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-SbsvJEgD\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"SbsvJEgD\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"text\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Text Editor #SbsvJEgD\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-text-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><p>It's time to remove a little bit of that negative connotation to being selfish as a secret to success.&nbsp;<\/p><p>It only means that you are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thelist.com\/45621\/reasons-selfish\/\">putting yourself<\/a> first this time by taking care of your own needs and wants. A selfish person knows what he or she wants and actually works on achieving it. Selfish people know what needs to be done to achieve their dreams and are not easily swayed by what others are going to tell.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Taking care of yourself will eventually lead to success. You can't possibly give money to those who are asking you for some if you know that you are struggling as well. You can't possibly take any more responsibility just to create a better self-image when you know you are already suffering from burnout.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-mDcyDYm9\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"mDcyDYm9\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"row\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Row #mDcyDYm9\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\" data-op3-sticky=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-active-desktop=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-tablet=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-mobile=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-top-desktop=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-tablet=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-mobile=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-until=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-until-element=\"\"><div data-op3-children=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-mobile=\"0\"><div id=\"op3-element-WghH28Jh\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"WghH28Jh\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"column\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Column #WghH28Jh\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div class=\"op3-column-content op3-background-parent\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-element-container><div data-op3-children=\"2\"><div id=\"op3-element-1fJn7GVH\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"1fJn7GVH\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"headline\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Headline #1fJn7GVH\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-headline-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><h2><!--StartFragment-->Being Selfish Is A Form Of Self-Care<!--EndFragment--><br><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-GsYvYVXK\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"GsYvYVXK\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"text\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Text Editor #GsYvYVXK\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-text-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><p>Think of being selfish as one kind of self-care. The secret to success is to give yourself a break. With self-care, you are saving yourself from burnout. You will become healthier, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/3032673\/4-reasons-why-being-selfish-is-good-for-you\" style=\"\">more focused<\/a>, and with improved self-confidence. These are what you are aiming for when you become selfish. You will become the <a href=\"https:\/\/101successhacks.com\/doing-these-will-help-you-be-the-happiest-version-of-yourself-everyday\/\" style=\"\">happiest version of yourself<\/a> when you know when to take a quality rest, without thinking of anyone. These traits are your exact secret to success.&nbsp;<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-0fDaQwxW\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"0fDaQwxW\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"row\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Row #0fDaQwxW\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div data-op3-element-container data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\" data-op3-sticky=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-active-desktop=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-tablet=\"1\" data-op3-sticky-active-mobile=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-top-desktop=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-tablet=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-top-mobile=\"0px\" data-op3-sticky-until=\"0\" data-op3-sticky-until-element=\"\"><div data-op3-children=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-desktop-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-tablet-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile=\"1\" data-op3-stack-columns-mobile-reverse=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-desktop=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-tablet=\"0\" data-op3-wrap-columns-mobile=\"0\"><div id=\"op3-element-7vtwg4Ij\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"7vtwg4Ij\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"column\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Column #7vtwg4Ij\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"1\"><div class=\"op3-column-content op3-background-parent\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-element-container><div data-op3-children=\"3\"><div id=\"op3-element-VbdQ6qYx\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"VbdQ6qYx\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"headline\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Headline #VbdQ6qYx\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-headline-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><h2><!--StartFragment-->Final Thoughts&nbsp;<!--EndFragment--><br><\/h2><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-7w61B2zU\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"7w61B2zU\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"customhtml\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Custom HTML #7w61B2zU\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-custom-html-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-code-html><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1337216062419691\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- After Article -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1337216062419691\" data-ad-slot=\"1011410057\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"op3-element-VjBHNF2o\" class=\"op3-element \" data-op3-uuid=\"VjBHNF2o\" data-op3-gid=\"\" data-op3-element-type=\"text\" data-op3-element-spec=\"\" data-op3-element-caption=\"Text Editor #VjBHNF2o\" data-op3-code-before=\"\" data-op3-code-after=\"\" data-op-visibility-hidden=\"0\" data-op-element-hidden=\"0\" data-op3-style-id=\"\" data-op3-has-children=\"0\"><div class=\"op3-text-wrapper\" data-op-animation-trigger=\"none\" data-op-animation-style=\"\" data-op-animation-loop=\"0\" data-op-timer-minutes=\"0\" data-op-timer-seconds=\"0\"><div data-op3-contenteditable><p>The next time you feel guilty about enjoying all by yourself without taking care of other people\u2019s needs, read this article again. 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